ive made a lot of amazing connection and friends from this website but it also has connected me to toxic abusive people and just doesnt feel like a good space anymore. too many bad things happened on here and there are too many memories of connections thatve died in bad ways.

emotional abuse just really messes with your ability to tell what is justifiable because you’re always made to emphasise with the abuser, to consider their circumstances, their reasons, to excuse them because of it, and even when you rationally realise that hey, no, that doesn’t make it okay, there’s still just that nagging guilt telling you they’re doing their best and you’re judging them far too harshly
i dont know what to do
am i just a piece of shit to you now
Charli XCX photographed by Mike Massaro for DIY Magazine, 2014.